Today’s cultural climate is driven by influence, and it’s everywhere — on our TV screens, on our social media platforms and in the lifestyles we try to emulate. Many people find themselves on a path looking for a guiding light, but today, let’s shift gears. Allow me to challenge you with something different:
What if you let your money influence you? Not shame you, not restrict you — but influence you by reflecting your money truths, revealing your financial habits and helping you become more financially aligned.
Let’s unpack what your money might be trying to say if you’re willing to look through a different lens:
1. WHAT IF YOUR SPENDING REVEALS YOUR STANDARDS? IT COULD BE AN INVITATION TO RAISE THE BAR.
You know what your money is telling you? It’s telling you whether you’re investing in quality, settling or overcompensating. Let it push you to pause and ask: Is this purchase a reflection of who I am becoming? Only you know that truth, but here’s what it means. It’s that slight push that’s causing you to pause and ask yourself: Is this purchase a reflection of who I want to be and where I’m trying to go?
2. WHAT IF YOUR ACCOUNT BALANCE SHOWS CONGESTION? IT MAY BE NUDGING YOU TOWARD NEW PATTERNS.
You know what your money is saying here? Traffic jam. There’s congestion somewhere; maybe the balance is low, or maybe the spending’s high. Either way, your finances are waving a flag and saying, “We can’t flow like this!”
So, what does clearing the jam look like? Maybe it’s meal prepping instead of eating out. Maybe it’s reviewing your subscriptions. Maybe it’s pulling back on how often you treat yourself — not cutting it out completely, but shifting the frequency. These changes serve as a financial GPS so your money can move freely with purpose, not chaos.
3. WHAT IF YOUR FINANCES EXPOSE YOUR EMOTIONAL TRIGGERS? IT CALLS YOU TO ACCOUNTABILITY.
You know what your money is doing here? It’s making a big reveal. That random purchase at Target, the beauty-supply store or the spa wasn’t just about those things you bought, was it?
Your money is saying, “That wasn’t a treat. That was a soothe.” We don’t have to unpack it here, but you know what that moment was about. Once you admit what the spending was really for, you have the power to adjust. That’s emotional leadership that can align you with financial healing.
The most powerful financial decision you’ll ever make isn’t about earning more or spending less. It’s choosing to listen to what your money has been trying to tell you all along.