MY HEALTH CHALLENGES
When I was 16, I overcame suicide. I was bullied badly in school, and then one month after my 16th birthday, I was put in a mental hospital for my safety. That night, I lost my uncle, who was like a dad to me.
In April of 2023, I was diagnosed with postural orthostatic hypotension after I went to an amusement park and passed out on a ride after going upside down. That wasn’t the first time I’d passed out, and we never could figure out why until my heart doctor did a tilt-table test — which I failed
In September of 2024, I was diagnosed with epilepsy. After I went to a concert, I experienced a seizure — which I’d never had before that night. I was rushed to the hospital, where I underwent a CT scan, and they told me I had epilepsy. This finding changed my life.
MY APPROACH
My approach to this challenge is just understanding that I can’t do everything other people can do. it’s hard when you’re raising a child because there’s so much you want to do, but it all changes when you can’t do everything.
I’ve had an accepting mindset, but I will admit that it’s hard. I feel sometimes like I hold my family back from doing things, which is feel badly about although they say it’s OK.
MY TREATMENT
Since my diagnoses, I have been given meds and some restrictions. I have been doing better, but some days are worse than others.
THE HARDEST PART
The hardest part is that life now will never be the same. I must be careful where I go and what I do.
I’m no longer allowed to drive, and I must be mindful everywhere I go. If an emergency vehicle goes by with its lights on, I have to cover my eyes and look down. I’m no longer allowed to go to Mardi Gras parades or theme parks.
THE SILVER LINING
The most rewarding part of this is how my family has adapted to my diagnoses, and they are very supportive.
MY LIFE NOW
Life now involves being careful of everything. I have realized that I’m not the same as everyone else. I may not be able to do what other people do, but that’s OK!
This experience has changed my life and made me realize that life can turn at any moment. My proudest moment since my diagnoses was when I started my own small business, and I did it from the ground up. I get to spend every moment with my daughter — watching her grow
MY ADVICE TO OTHERS
it’s OK to not be able to do things other people do; don’t let that change you. Don’t let it define you. Show the world what you are made of! Do what you love. Yes, there will be challenges, but you can do it. I believe in you!